She.

She turns to you now, and with a look of utmost seriousness and conviction in her eyes, she sets forth her definition of love, wanting to know if you share her opinion or not. Real love, she says, is when you get as much pleasure from giving pleasure as you do from receiving it. What do you think Adam? Am i right or wrong? You tell her she is right. You tell her it is one of the most perceptive things she has ever said.

[Paul Auster]